The Spice Island: Our Southernmost Destination!

Nutmeg and Mace: Grenada's most well-known export.

Nutmeg and Mace: Grenada’s most well-known export.

Grenada: January 29-Febuary 10

nightwatch on passage to Grenada

nightwatch on passage to Grenada

After our sad goodbyes to Dominica and our long passage to Grenada, we were in need of a moment to collect ourselves.  We pulled into Prickly Bay, on the southwest coast of Grenada.  It is a large harbor, full of boats, and we could see many swanky new houses, restaurants, and marinas along the shore.  It was a far cry from our quiet little Portsmouth, but we didn’t lament.  We have the traveling spirit now, so we were excited to see what the Spice Island had in store for us.

 

 

looking for a good spot to anchor

looking for a good spot to anchor

We did our usual routine to anchor.  We scoped out the harbor and looked for a nice large spot in adequate depth.  Chris drives the boat while I handle the ground tackle on the bow.  When Chris and I agree on a spot, I lower the anchor.  I usually let out five times as much chain as the depth to the bottom.  For example, if we anchor in 15 feet of water, I let out 75 feet of chain.  There are many factors that might change that ratio, but we use that rule as a starting point.

The snubber and the backup snubber attached to our anchor chain and run up to the bow cleat.

The snubber and the backup snubber attached to our anchor chain and run up to the bow cleat.

Then I attach a snubber, also called a bridle.  This is a metal fitting that slips over one of the links in the anchor chain.  It has a line (rope) attached to each side.  One line is secured to our port cleat and the other is secured to the starboard cleat.  The snubber relieves the pressure on our windlass, which is the electrical device that lets out and pulls up the chain and anchor.  The full weight of our 47-foot boat is pulling against that chain.

The anchor locker is open to show the windlass.  Chris swims out to our anchor bouy, which floats directly above our anchor.

The anchor locker is open to show the windlass. Chris swims out to our anchor bouy, which floats directly above our anchor.

Chris allows the wind to settle the boat and then backs down hard on the anchor to set it into the sand/grass/mud.  Finally comes the fun part.  I always chuckle when I think about how my “job” is literally to “go swimming”.  After we are all settled, one of us dons a mask and “dives on the anchor” to get a visual confirmation that it is dug deeply into the bottom.

One Bowl Meals are quick and easy on a rough passage

One Bowl Meals are quick and easy on a rough passage

It took us a few hours to rest and clean up the boat from our passage.  While underway and especially while sailing at night, it is difficult to keep the boat tidy.  Food is prepared quickly.  Jackets, flashlights, lifejackets, and seaboots are taken on and off throughout the passage and thrown willy nilly wherever they land.  The boat bounces around so much that even brushing our teeth is a (messy) adventure.  Whenever we finish a passage, it takes at least two hours to get Patronus back in shipshape.

Reese helps to pull in the fishing gear.

Reese helps to pull in the fishing gear.

Chris usually takes care of the topsides.  He gives the boat a fresh water wash, especially the clear vinyl windows on our dodger, which can erode to a nasty haze with too much salt water (who designed that?  windows.  on a boat.  that can’t get SALT WATER on them?!).  He coils up the lines, puts away the fishing gear, hoses down the cockpit (which has tummy-settling pretzel bits all over it), and sets up the dinghy.  While underway, we pull the dinghy behind us.  The outboard engine is taken off and secured to the stern railing and the gas tank is stored in a compartment in the swim platform.

 

Porter lounges underway.

Porter lounges underway.

I take care of down below.  I make the beds, gather dirty laundry, hang up wet clothing, do the dishes, and wipe down the tables and counters.  We have a few items that must be stowed while underway so they don’t fly around the cabin.  I take a moment to set those up again.  We have a beautiful tray that our friends, the Cecalas, gave to us and I like to have that on the dinette table.  I put the picture frames back up in the stateroom and unhook the bungee cords that keep the printer and books from flying off their shelves.  When it is especially rough, I move the cutting boards and collanders from the open shelf under the oven and put them on the floor in Reese’s room.

We raise our Grenada courtesy flag.

We raise our Grenada courtesy flag.

Reese is in charge of the flags.  She raises the courtesy flag for the country we are in along with the yellow “Q” flag, which stands for Quarantine.  This flag must be flown when we enter a new country until we clear customs and immigration.  She also raises our burgees, which include our Salty Dawg Rally banner, our Ocean Crusing Club flag, our yacht club flags, and our Seven Seas Sailing Association flag.  These burgees alert other cruisers to our affiliations and open the door for a dinghy drive-by and a nice hello.

The kids hang up the foul weather gear and store the adult lifejackets, which is a lot harder than it sounds.  They also tidy their rooms and help to hang wet clothing.  They rinse off, change into clean clothes, and brush their teeth.  Bryson assists Chris with the dinghy and might pump up the paddle board and kayak.  Then they take out their schoolbooks.  It is usually too rough to do schoolwork while the boat is moving, so I get them back on track right away.

On the day we arrived in Grenada, we finished our cleanup, took a deep breath, and readied ourselves for a new country and a new experience.  We had made it to our southernmost destination!  But first, we had to clear into customs and immigration.  Wendy and I took the dinghy in and found the customs office in the upstairs of a small white building.  Finding customs is sometimes half the battle, so we were already feeling successful.  Customs and Immigration officers run the gamut from “extremely friendly and helpful” to “seriously disgruntled”.  We entered the building and heard, “Welcome to Grenada!!!”  Good sign.

We began the task of filling out our paperwork.  If you have ever flown internationally, you know the skinny immigration forms that you fill out on the plane before you land.  We fill out forms like that, designed for maritime use.  They ask all kinds of additional boating related questions.  Every country is different.  Some have one form.  Some have up to six forms.  Questions cover the basics, like:

Captain name, address

Boat name, type, size, beam, and draft (how deep the boat is in the water)

Previous port and next country of destination

Engine type and horsepower.

How many pets, bottles of liquor and firearms are on board.

Names, birthdates, nationalities, and passport numbers of all crew.

Every once in a while, we are stumped by a vague and badly-worded question, but the officers are usually helpful.  While Wendy and I filled out our forms, the Head Customs Guy came in and had a lively, ribbing conversation with the officer.  It seems the officer raises chickens at home and had brought fresh eggs in for his manager.  The manager was complaining that the eggs were too small.  It’s nice to see that chop-busting is alive and well below the Tropic of Cancer.  After getting our passports stamped and paying all kinds of fees, we were off to check out the scene.  All we found was a tiny superette.

The moon rises over the sea on our passage to Grenada.

The moon rises over the sea on our passage to Grenada.

We spent a few days in Prickly Bay, catching up on schoolwork, walking into town, and hanging out on the beach.  Wendy and I went on a wild goose chase to find fresh meat at a place that was mentioned in our guide book.  We found it, but the supply boat wasn’t bringing new inventory for another week.  Instead, the manager sat down with us and gave us several tips on what to do in Grenada, including visiting Merry’s Bakery in Port Louis.  We were hoping to do a Hash in Grenada, but the woman had never done it and didn’t know anyone who had.  Hmm.  More about that later.  Back on the beach with the boys, Reese got stung by a jellyfish, but it wasn’t that bad.  On the day we left, Reese took her friendship bracelets off and left them on her boogie board so they wouldn’t get wet.  Remember that.

Battle of the Ship’s Logs

For fun, I thought I’d let you take a glimpse at our Ship’s Log.  Following are some excerpts from some of our passages.  (single letters are abbreviations of our names; numbers with n and w are latitude and longitude; times are given in military format; additional info given in italics)

Patronus Ship’s Log

(excerpt from our 1441 mile passage: North Carolina, USA to St. Thomas, USVI)

11/4/12: 0728  Threw off the docklines.  Sailed away from the safe harbor.  Catching the trade winds in our sails.  We’re actually doing it!!!! (this is from a favorite Mark Twain quote of ours)

1100 nav station hatch open.  Wave crashes in and soaks everything.  Gulf Stream: ugh.

1900 fishing rod holder breaks

 

11/5/12: 1858 Dark squalls left and right of us. Cruise ship aft starboard side going to Grand Turk.  I Love AIS (note to readers: AIS is an electronic tool that gives us info about all boats, that have AIS installed, within a 48 mile range.  It tells us their heading, speed, and the approximate time of impact, if we are on a crash course.  We see the name of the boat so we can call them on the radio and politely ask them to not smack into us.  Big commercial boats are required to have AIS and it has helped us many times this year.)

Wind 16-20, Going 7 knots.

Cloud shape of man with open arms

Making mac and cheese a la Mema

Lightning at sea

 

11/6/12: 1200 Mutiny on Patronus.  Dad and kids do a pirate skit.  Perfect timing.  So much fun and cheered us all up.

 

clipping onto the boat in case we fall overboard at night
clipping onto the boat in case we fall overboard at night

11/7/12: 0300 squall.

0530 jib halyard breaks at top of mast. Chris and I have to take down the sail in the dark.  Still shaking from adrenaline.  So glad we have jack lines to snap onto.

0858: flying fish lands in cockpit.  Hammer bar and race caps: Breakfast of champions.

1915: 655 miles traveled. 655 to waypoint. Yet not half way:(

1927: wind 15-20, gusts to 23, Wind 235, heading 122 some seas knocking us around, going 7 kts, 658 log, Latitude/Longitude: N 28 33 W 69 09

Looking for more squalls. Sky looks ok though for now

Have not fixed storm jib halyard

Dad and B snoozing on deck, CRP asleep down below

Had Kathy’s chicken and rice for dinner. Great

Did Reese’s hair in bucket. Took long time to get knots out.

Still no shower for me:(

 

11/8/12: 0320 shooting star, hot cocoa, two twizzlers

Playlist Cheek to Cheek, Via Con Mi, My Funny Valentine (Chet Baker version), She, Biggest Part of Me by Ambrosia (she’s the light that breathes in me)

Did Message in a bottle!!!!

1630 on watch after shower and lots of rest today. Cranky. Feels like too much longer to go. Got to talk to friends on satellite phone nice. Reading history of Caribbean. Kids on deck playing. Dad and Chris asleep. Lasagna in oven. 808 miles down. 540 to go. 27 06 n 67 07 w

TTG (Time To Go) finally not maxed out at 99 hours 99 min:)

1815: waiting for squall

1900: 26 48 n 66 58 w

Lasagna a hit. Squall never came. Dad smoking. RP asleep

828 miles traveled

No stars or moon

 

Throwing out a message in a bottle at the 1000 mile mark.
Throwing out a message in a bottle at the 1000 mile mark.

11/9/12:  0335 On watch. “Moonlight and love songs, never out of date.” As time goes by.  Longer, Dan Fogelberg moonlight quiet overwhelmingly beautiful “longer than there have been fishes in the ocean”

1100 tried spinnaker. Worked well to 18 kts. Rounded up hard at 18kts. Caught small fish, threw back

E cleaned forward head and tidied up. Trying to dry wet towels and clothes so I can put in laundry bag

Kids working on another message in bottle.

Food free-for-all. Eat it if you can go down below long enough to get it!

1637 Bryson using math to calculate the percentage of fuel we used and have left.

 

11/10/12: 0130 on watch. So tired. Couldn’t sleep in our cabin. Too rough. Gusting to 30 kts. Main and jib reefed. Chris says EPIRB deployed from holder overnight but did not go off. Put in ditch bag. Scary! It fell behind fuel cans.  He heard it and grabbed it before it fell in water.  Thinking about how close we just got to having the Coast Guard fly over us! Just had an apple and a few potato chips and one twizzler. Traveled 1045.1 miles. 368 to go but not yet rhumb-lined. More 30’s. Gotta go.

0530 still up. Needed C to help reef so he hasn’t slept.

346 to go. Waiting for wind to go to 60 so we can head right at St Thomas. It got light out quickly but overcast no sunrise

Had to tie up fuel can that was coming loose.

0600 finally down to rest. Crashed in boys room with Porter and Bryson. Sun up so P got up shortly.  Rough trying to sleep but did and it was restful.

 

11/10/12: 1000 got up, ate breakfast, cleaned up things that flew around over night. Washed face. Brushed teeth

Back on watch. C and dad down below sleeping. Kids playing.

312.9 to go. 1111.71 traveled so far.  Wind 20-28 kts NE

Just had a spirited and lengthy conversation with the wind instrument.  Wind direction hit 150 and I may have asked it to marry me.

Heading : 190

Very rolly. Shooting starts: Most I’ve ever seen in life I think.

1140: Spotted bird.  Land must be getting close…

 

11/11/12: 0200 Happy First Birthday to Patronus!  On watch. Trade winds set in with rollers from behind. Heading right at St Thomas. 200 miles to go. Going 7-8 knots.  Hard work steering. Constant attention so we don’t jibe. TTG says 28 hours which would be perfect timing-won’t arrive in the dark.

Listening to iPod songs haven’t heard in months.

0324 crescent moonrise smile amazing

 

11/12/12: 1000 caught mahi mahi

Had dinner somehow in rolling seas.  Porter chicken with lemon, cous cous, corn.

1940 Dad sees red light off starboard side around two miles away. Hail on VHF.  s/v Liberty from Rhode Island on way to Red Hook in St Thomas as well. He left 11/1. Fun talking to someone from the rest of the world. Can’t stop looking at his red light.

 

11/14/12: 1236 last night watch! Got some rest in cabin but it is really hot and sticky. Had an apple, water, 4 twizzlers, 5 Swedish fish. Should be good to go for four hours:) Want to put up sail by myself but not confident enough. Will wait for Chris to wake up. Longest engine has been on in 8 days so I’m not complaining. Reading book on history of Caribbean. Dry. Squalls.

0200 Land. Ho.  43 miles to go.  Found ice cream at the bottom of the freezer. Happy:)

0247 last water tank almost empty.

Going off watch. So tired. 30 miles to go. When I come back up we will almost be there. Yay.

 Somewhere over the past few months, the Caribbean has melted away my sharper edges, allowing me to float along with the love/sand/heart/ocean of this lower latitude paradise.  My ship log entries have changed as well.  The facts, figures, and numbers that used to be important to me have been replaced by thoughts, feelings, and impressions, both deep and irreverent.  These are what I now deem to be important.

Well, that and our boat speed, of course!

 

Patronus Ship’s Log

(excerpt from 261 mile passage: Dominica to Grenada)

1/28/13, 0824 Depart Portsmouth after saying goodbye to Titus, Anything Goes, and Virginia Dare.  Kids doing school.  Fishing lines out.  Sad to be leaving.

0950 cleaned floors and cockpit

1147 winds light.  Titus texts us to tell us he can see Patronus and Anything Goes sailing from Roseau.  It feels a little better to know that someone is standing on our perfect island, watching us leave.  Noticing.

1513 10.1 knots baby!  Caught two bonita.

194: Not everyone gets to watch the gold moon rise giant in the black sky from the cozy cockpit of a sailboat blasting along at 10 knots in a beam reach. Feeling grateful.

2049: What the &%@# do any Stevie Nicks songs mean?

2100: Trying to like Radiohead because Craig says they’re good.  But it keeps reminding me of Pearl Jam.  Or is it Nirvana?

2239: extendo-blinking to Heart and Soul by T’pau.  Hit 11.4 knots several times.

 

Patronus Ship’s Log

(excerpt from passage: St. Maarten to Tortola)

 

we pass the largest sailboat in the world
we pass the largest sailboat in the world

4/19/13: 0147  En route to Tortola from St. Maarten.
Racing Enchantment of the Seas to Tortola:) ten miles to beam of us. Not for long! Big Dipper gigantic above my head. Soft breeze. Downwind
at 8 kts. Twizzlers. water. Book. Headlamp. Clipped in. Under blanket on lazarette. Had to leave Anything Goes again. Had to leave Kelli.  Off to read.
0316 wondering about the difference between those who study the stars
and those who look to the sea. One looks outward from the planet. One inward. But
perhaps the important distinction isn’t about trying to find the
merits and results of each of these pursuits but in celebrating the
looking.

And our most recent passage:

Patronus Ship’s Log

(excerpt from 552 mile passage: British Virgin Islands to the Bahamas)

4/21/13: Virgin passage. Quit soda, again, for 12 hours. On watch for 12 minutes.
Already about to cave in. Chilly. Sturgeron (seasickness medicine) working. Took at 1517. Had pizza for dinner.  Cloudy. Wind 80. Sog 6.5. Heading 300 for Great
Inagua.
2130 huge warm (ugh) water and three twizzlers. Trying to stave off the
soda. Pudding queued up and ready for my 2200 treat.
Reading Jimmy Buffett’s A Pirate Looks at Fifty. Had my water and pudding. Closest we’ve been to a cruiseship at night. 4.4 miles away. Looks so big. Trying not to look sideways to the sea where giant rolling waves blot out the horizon and seem out to get us.
0200 all done. Completely spent.

night watch.  checking the instruments.
night watch. checking the instruments.

4/22/13 1917 sunset clear. kids playing so great. Felt headachy then better after Motrin and taco dinner. Correcting schoolwork. Kids ready for bed
1951 kids asleep. Checked instruments. Turned on tri color. Got flashlight ready. Gemini first stars I see. Moon almost full. Bright out. No targets on AIS for 24 miles. All alone out here. We are just north of Dominican Republic. Wish we were stopping there. Wind 97 at
17 kts. 6.3 sog. Heading 305. Nice to have compass lights working.
Listening to fave songs: Emmanuel. Over the rainbow. Bubbly. From my
Heart to Yours.
2130 ate an orange so I don’t get scurvy.  LOL.
2315 wrap jib around head stay trying to go wing on wing. C hurts toe
going on foredeck.

Playlist for Sunrise, by DJ Jazzy Erica:
Predawn song: These Arms of Mine, Otis Redding. Groovin, The Rascals
First light: Happy Together, Turtles
A Taste of Honey. Herb Alpert and the Tijuana brass. (Decided that is
the first song I will learn on the trumpet. Just need a trombone player
to play with me.)
Baby I’m Yours, Barbara Lewis “till the stars fall from the sky”
Miracles, Jefferson Starship “if only you’d believe in miracles so would I.”
Whenever I Call You Friend, Kenny Loggins. “I see myself within your eyes.
Sweet love showin’ us some heavenly light. I never seen such a beautiful sight.”
Sunrise: Aquarious. “Let the sun shine. Let the sun shine in. The sunshine in.”
Venus, Frankie Valli
True Fine Love, Steve Miller Band
These are Days. Natalie Merchant
Beautiful Day. U2 “The heart is a-bloom. On the road. But you’ve got no
destination. You’ve been all over. And it’s been all over you.”
0655 Porter pops up on deck. Life jacket on. Crawls onto stbd lazarette and
stares at the sails.  He is so cute.
0722 called dad. Anything Goes about 70 mi behind us.
0945 made blueberry muffins and thought about the song Funky Cold Medina.  I should download that.
1630 Playing memory with kids
1838 leftovers for dinner. Spaghetti w meat sauce. Fresh guacamole and
pineapple. Dolphins jumping high. Sailing right into Awesome sunset
2045 instruments turn off and on. E noticed AIS turn off. Went to autopilot
and tried to steer back but main jibes and breaks block on boom.
Bends preventer.  Another nighttime journey to the bow for Chris.  So scary.
2344 can’t read anymore. Finished a big part of my iTunes clean up
job. Not in the mood to correct kids’ math workbooks. Air very humid. Trying not to
freak out that we might jibe any second. 15 minutes till I am off watch. No boat targets.

4/24/13 1621 running along south shore of Great Inagua. Not in Kansas
anymore. Looks like Anegada. Flat and white beaches far as you can
see. Cleanup on boat. Showers. Working on iTunes. Have all blogs written
through Dominica.  Super.  Now I’m only 14 ports of call behind…..

Dominica: CARNIVAL!

 We came out to see the world,

but we ended up making friends with it.

After two weeks, we take down our Dominica courtest flag...

After two weeks, we take down our Dominica courtesy flag…

Note: While this is a family friendly website, in this post, some content may not be suitable for younger readers.  What that means, is that if you only read ONE of our posts on Dominica, this is the one!

We were heading into our last weekend in Dominica.  We had vowed to stay until the opening of Carnival season and seriously considered staying until actual Carnival, which wasn’t for another three weeks.  We went out with a bang, with one fun party after another for days.  At the end of this post, for yes, this is the final Dominica post, I think you will agree that we made the most of every precious moment on The Nature Island.

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Day 10, and we’re not even thinking about leaving.

The next day, we visited CALLS, and I had my “Angelina Jolie moment”.  CALLS is the Center Where Adolescents Learn to Love and Serve.  It is a school for teens who have dropped out of high school for various reasons and need a second chance.  We heard about the school from Martin, one of the PAYS guys.  Stan the Man’s wife, Joanne, works there.  Wendy and I walked over with the children and introduced ourselves to the principal, who gave us a tour.  The teens take academic classes as well as learning skills, such as woodshop, art, and childcare.  We made a donation to this great school from the money we raised back at home (thank you to our wonderful community of friends, coworkers, and schoolmates!).  If anyone is looking to support a school like this, get in touch with me.  They only have enough funds to last two more years…

The kids eat up the babies at the daycare.

The kids eat up the babies at the daycare.

Our kids were especially eager to see the childcare area, which serves the community children as well as children of the students.  Our kids took off their shoes and jumped right in to play with the kids.  It was lunchtime, so they helped feed yogurt to the little ones while Wendy and I took turns holding the itty bitty baby who was there.  Before we left, we arranged to have the children come back the next day to volunteer in the daycare room.  We weren’t 100% sure that it would be a help or a hindrance, but they were keen to return and we were keen to have an hour to ourselves for the first time in months!

Reese feeds yogurt to one little ange.

Reese feeds yogurt to one little angel.

Wendy holds the tiniest little peanut.

Wendy holds the tiniest little peanut.

 

A Peace Corps volunteer is the woodshop teacher.

A Peace Corps volunteer is the woodshop teacher.

 

The students make bowls out of the shell of the calabash fruit and sell them.

The students make bowls out of the shell of the calabash fruit and sell them.

a student paints masks for Carnival

a student paints masks for Carnival

 

watch out, Angelina.  I could get used to holding these little precious children.

watch out, Angelina. I could get used to holding these little precious children.

DSC_0592Back at the boat, Reese and I somehow found ourselves alone and making lunch.  We sat down together for our poor man’s French lunch, which is cheese, crackers, olives, and whatever veggies we had in the fridge.  It was lovely to sit with her and answer her many questions about what “reasons” a teen might not finish high school.  Uh boy.

I'm not sure what Porter is up to, but he has a detailed list of things to do for the day, including Play with Olivia.

I’m not sure what Porter is up to, but he has a detailed list of things to do for the day, including Help Daddy, snacktime, play music, and Play with Olivia.

Craig and Stuff.  Friends Forever.

Craig and Stuff. Friends Forever.

Day 11, We’re getting there.

The next day, January 25th, the kids volunteered at CALLS.  After dropping them off, Wendy, Craig and I went off to look for lunch.  We ended up at Lydia’s, which is also one of my favorite spots for the Friday night dance party.  Chris stayed back on the boat to work on the head and watch Porter, who didn’t feel like babysitting a bunch of kids, as he so delicately put it.  On our walk through town, we ran into Stuff.  Poor Stuff.  He seems to have a bit of a drug situation going on.  He begs for money and is willing to do literally anything for a few EC: take your garbage, get you some grapefruit, show you the way to customs, etc.  Craig has taken a liking to the fellow.  Today, Stuff has promised that he is off drugs and just needs some money for a Coke.

the crew at The Parakeet.

the crew at The Parakeet.

After the fun time I had the week before, I managed to convince most of the crew to come out for the Friday night street party.  Chris, Wendy, Craig, and I met Titus and went off looking for some fun.  It was just as crazy as the week before.  While standing outside the first bar, checking out the scene, we noticed a man to our right, who was just chilling out by himself, smoking, and looking around while swaying to the music.  Enter, stage left, a petite and energetic young woman, dancing up a storm to the loud reggae music.  She is dressed in a very tight, very bright, flaming red jumpsuit.  She is dancing in the streets, dancing in and out of the bar, dancing all over the place, oblivious to everything around her.  I loved it!  (even though I have a sneaking suspicion that this is how I appear when I dance).  All of a sudden, the quiet man to our right takes the joint out of his mouth, which, by the way, was the size of a cigar, and screams out, “You look like a f&*#@ing popsicle!”, which instantly became one of our favorite catch phrases.  We would see more of Popsicle in the coming days, but we never saw her Fashion Policeman again.  He’s probably still working on that dube.

This is Sugar Daddy. Note the mesh shirt.

This is Sugar Daddy. Note the mesh shirt.

I was happy that the Friday Night Dance Party was going so well.  Wendy and I also got to see our friend Sugar Daddy, who we met at Big Papa’s Reggae Night.  He was dressed in his finest mesh tank top and had clearly lost his toothbrush sometime in the last month.  He gave us big hugs and wet kisses on the cheek.  We quickly moved on to the next bar…

At The Parakeet, we all got to admire the artwork on the walls of the restaurant/bar.  If the posters depicting scantily clad women holding beer bottles in a most loving embrace didn’t do it for you, you could check out the hand-painted murals.  One shows a woman leaning over a bench.  The artist has not yet learned to paint clothing, so it was a bit much for a public restaurant, but no one seemed to mind.

I looked up as a man with a joint braided into his goatee walked by.  I thought to myself, “What a clever way to carry your joint around!  Just tie it up in your goatee hair.”  And then I thought to myself, “You have been in the Caribbean waaaaaaay too long.”  It turned out that it was not a joint.  It was one of those white, plastic bunny rabbit barrettes that little girls wear in their hair.  I’m still wishing that it was the other thing.

Ross, which was his name, wanted to dance with Wendy.  “She gets ALL the guys!” I silently complained to myself.  Just kidding.  Forced to choose between Ross, Sugar Daddy, and Stuff, I’m not sure who I would pick.  Not to worry.  When Wendy needed a break, Ross gladly punched my dancecard and swung me around the room.  As I watched the nudie posters stream past my eyes, I noted that even the sketchiest of Dominican men can dance, damn it!

Wendy is unpreturbed by our dance partner competition.

Wendy is unperturbed by our dance partner competition.

Just to get Wendy jealous, I managed to snag a dance with Stafford, who is one of the quieter PAYS guys by day, and apparently a relentless, dancing womanizer by night.  He was all kinds of excited to dance with me, even though he barely came up to my shoulders (or because?).  All I could think about was how he really knows how to barbecue chicken at the Sunday PAYS barbecue.  I searched the room for Chris, but he was outside on the patio, so I grabbed Titus from the bar and danced with him until we could slip outside to join the others.

All in all, it was a successful and memorable Friday night.  And just like I got crepes out of the French, I got dancing out of my Dominicans.

 

Racing off to Secret Beach with Martin's boat and our dinghy, Fire Bolt.

Racing off to Secret Beach with Martin’s boat and our dinghy, Fire Bolt.

Day 12: We’re in like Flynn

If you don’t know where Secret Beach is on Dominica, join the club.  Only us locals know about it or how to get there.  Okay, us cruisers who are tight with the locals.  Martin, Anything Goes’ PAYS guy, was excited to share this special place with us and asked us to join him, Joanne (Stan the Man’s wife), and her kids for the day.  We followed him in our dinghies a good way out of Portsmouth and he pointed out the rock cliffs as we approached.  The cliff looks like a horse with his mouth bent down to drink water from a trough.  It reminded me of the red sculpture on eastern Long Island, which depicts a deer bending down to eat some grass.

 

the rocks on secret beach look like a horse drinking water.
the rocks on secret beach look like a horse drinking water.

As we came around the bend, we saw a secluded little beach, tucked away between the cliffs.  It was adorable.  We anchored the dinghies out in the small cove and carried in our bags, lunches, and children over our heads.  The kids played in the sand while we chatted with Martin and Joanne.

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Martin showed us a cave in the rocks and told us that you could squeeze into it and get all the way through to the other end, which opened out onto the big harbor.  At first, we were all game.  But Reese and Kate went in with Craig and suddenly screamed.  The waves were at high tide and were crashing into the cave, leaving little space between the water and the top of the cave.  One by one, everyone begged off except for Craig and I.  I’m not sure why I didn’t cave (ugh.  I can’t stand puns.  But I know people who love them, so I couldn’t resist that one.).  I am not one for scary adventures, but it seemed like a one-time opportunity.  It’s not like Martin would suggest something dangerous, right?

Wendy and Craig climbing towards the cave.

Wendy and Craig climbing towards the cave.

Craig and I grabbed our masks and snorkels and picked our way over the sharp rocks to the cave entrance.  Once inside, we had to get down on our bellies and crawl through a tunnel that was filled with water.  We had about 12 inches of air between the water and the tunnel ceiling.  I felt like a Navy Seal.  I stayed close to Craig’s heels.  He called back and told me to look under the water.  He saw a lobster or something.  I put my face under and freaked out a little bit.  It was a whole little world down there, with fish and creepy crevices.  It was also a tiny space and I was inches from all of this underwater activity with nowhere to go if I suddenly saw this lobster or whatever it was.  Backing up didn’t seem like a possibility, so I went on.

I saw Craig stand up in front of me and realized the tunnel had ended.  We were in a dark, circular room within the cave.  It was about 20 feet in diameter and 20 feet high.  It was really, really cool.  For about 4 seconds.  That’s when Craig heard a chirping noise and looked up.  He shined his flashlight on the ceiling, looked at me, and whispered, “b-a-t-s”.  I said goodbye to the magical, cute room and looked up.  I followed the beam of my flashlight and saw hundreds, if not thousands of bats, all fluttering and squirming and shaking and vibrating as they clung to the ceiling.

“Ok!  All done!” I said to Craig as I practically knocked him over heading for the crack of light on the far side of the once-cute, now bat-infested caveroom.  We made for the exit and found ourselves standing on some big rocks that were submerged in 2 feet of water.  In front of us were many other large rocks, some jutting out of the water.  The waves were crashing into the cave entrance every few seconds with a violent thrust.  Just beyond the breaking waves was the reef.  We would have only a few seconds to swim against the incoming waves, between crashers, to get past all those rocks.  If a wave came while we were still swimming in the entrance, it would pummel us against the rocks.

Just as we were calculating how to get out, I looked down and saw sea urchins just below the surface.  They were all over the rocks we were standing on as well as the ones we had to walk out over to get out of the cave.  In addition to these spiny, stinging creatures, there were some primitive sea creatures clinging to the rocks that looked like a cross between a miniature armadillo and a beetle.  Excellent.  I looked at Craig and said, “I’m going back the way we came in.”  I turned and got a glimpse of the bats and then I remembered the creepy tunnel.  I turned back again and said, “Okay.  We can do this.”

Craig was fearless.  He said, “I’m just going to go for it.”  I screamed and told him to wait.  If he got hurt, who was going to help me get out?  Just kidding.  I kept sticking my head under the water between waves to size up the rocks and figure out where I could step.  Craig took one big breath and jumped in on the ebb of a wave and started swimming like crazy.  I saw his arm scrape up against the rocks on the left and prepared myself for some bodily damage.

The kids opt to stay on the beach and play.

The kids opt to stay on the beach and play.

I would have stayed there all day mustering up the courage to jump in, but keep in mind the bats behind me, which I couldn’t keep an eye on, the sea urchins under my feet, just waiting for me to slip sideways on the rocks, and the dinosaur bugs on the rocks where I needed to put my hands for balance.  No time to waste.  I made the shallowest dive I could and hoped I could swim fast enough to clear the entrance before the next wave hit.  It went surprisingly well and soon I caught up to Craig.  Our fear (he HAD to be a little afraid) was quickly replaced by, “How cool was THAT???!!!!” and we snorkeled our way back around to the Secret Beach.

I’m too much of a baby to jump off a cliff into the water, but I saved some face by exploring that cave.  I still feel like kind of a hotshot.  Craig, and Wendy, who did it later that day, will attest that it was every bit as freaky as I have described it.  No literary license here.  And I will attest that my spelunking days are officially over.

One Love on Patronus with Wendy and Callie

One Love on Patronus with Wendy, Titus, & Callie

Our time in Dominica couldn’t end without having one last party with all our new friends.  So that night, Wendy and Craig, Christine and Bob (from Virginia Dare), Titus, Eddison, Ken G (who never goes on boats!), Cosmo, and Callie came over to Patronus for a farewell sundowner.  We started down below, showing the guys around, and then made our way to the cockpit so we could enjoy the sunset.  We listened to reggae music, talked about our adventures, learned more about each of our friends (except for the quiet Callie and Cosmo), and toasted the beauty of Portsmouth.  We ended the night with promises to return to Dominica someday and invitations to visit us in New Jersey and Texas should they ever find themselves in the US.

friends forever

friends forever

the guys relax aboard Patronus after a long day at work

the guys relax aboard Patronus after a long day at work

Eddison, Bob, Craig, and Ken G

Eddison, Bob, Craig, and Ken G

DSC_0606It was a night of perfect balance and connections of our hearts.  It was bittersweet, because we all knew our time left together was short, but we didn’t dwell on that because we were fully enjoying each other’s company in the moment.  I will never forget the laughter, the stories, and the closeness that I felt with each of those precious people that night.  With tears in my eyes as I write this, I remember that I left part of my heart in Dominica that night.

Breakfast from Callie!

Breakfast from Callie!

Our Last Day in Dominica:

Sweet, quiet Callie.  The night before, we spent some time talking about the food on Dominica.  We love how no one could possibly go hungry on this lush, fertile island.  Fresh food abounds and all the other kinds of food are hard to get or expensive.  Hmmm.  I wonder why the oldest living woman for years was from Dominica?  The guys had told us how all children, both boys and girls, are taught to cook fresh foods from scratch.  The next morning, Callie proved it.  Titus arrived with a picnic basket filled with breakfast for 12.  We called over on the VHF to Anything Goes and Virginia Dare and told them to come aboard!  Together, we enjoyed salted cod, salad, breadfruit, papaya juice, and chocolate tea.  We imagined starting our days with this gorgeous burst of life-giving food each day.  This was a gift that could not be repaid.  It was Callie sharing his life, his island, and his heritage with us.

the kids enjoying breakfast

the kids enjoying breakfast

dusting off our late night on Patronus

dusting off our late night on Patronus

 

As we wait out a sudden downpour in Blue Bay, this little guy uses the runoff from the gutters to take a shower.  So cute!
While we wait out a sudden downpour in Blue Bay, this little guy uses the runoff from the gutters to take a shower. So cute!

We were certainly leaving Dominica with a bang.  The last few days had been wonderful in so many ways.  But we were about to experience some of the best Dominica has to offer.  Carnival season was opening on our last day.  We couldn’t be there for actual Carnival, but we had heard that the season-opening festivities could be just as much fun. We got our boats ready for our passage after breakfast and provisioned for our trip to Grenada.  In the afternoon, we all met at Blue Bay to head into town for the jump up (parade.  Sort of.)

 

 

Porter and Olivia polish off the popcorn while we wait for the parade.

Porter and Olivia polish off the popcorn while we wait for the parade.

We weren’t sure what to expect, but we were pumped up and ready for it.  We found a good spot in town to watch what we thought was a parade.  We waited and waited.  We drank beer, bought popcorn for the kids, and took pictures of some people dressed in costumes.  We saw a lot of people we knew, which made us feel less like tourists and more like old friends.  Finally, right on time (on “island time”, which means hours after they say it’s going to start), we saw a parade coming our way from far up the street.  There were a few cars/floats and a few people on stilts in sparkly costumes.

jumbies

jumbies

We are not here to watch. We are here to party!

We are not here to watch. We are here to party!

Then, out of nowhere, came Russ.  Remember Russ, from the Friday Night Street Party?  Russ saw Wendy and I and grabbed our hands.  He pulled us onto the street, which was now filled with very loud calypso music.  He took off his football helmet (don’t ask) and put it on my head.  He then took off his sweaty white tank top and put it around Wendy’s shoulder’s.  In the pictures, she and I don’t seem to have registered these two bits of information.  Perhaps the music was too loud.  We just danced away down the street with Ross.  In the middle of the parade.  Going the OPPOSITE DIRECTION of the parade.  I swear, just for the fun of it, I’m going to try that back at home in one of our “very serious” parades.  Just to see what people do.  Because in Dominica, no one even noticed.  Not one person.  We were just part of the scene.

Reese and Kate dancing down the street

Reese and Kate dancing down the street

jumping up after the music truck

jumping up after the music truck

Eventually, we started walking with the parade and got back to where everyone else was still standing, waiting for us.  Behind us was The Truck.  This truck was like a tractor trailer with the sides cut out.  On the roof of the truck was a man with a microphone, singing.  Inside the truck was a whole band and all their equipment.  Oh.  And more speakers than you ever imagined.  Go ahead.  Imagine a whole bunch of speakers on a semi.  Nope.  Not even close.  We are talking a lot of speakers.  The whole ground was thumping and shaking.  You felt the music more than you heard it.

Great pic of Bob and Christine from s/v Virginia Dare

Great pic of Bob and Christine from s/v Virginia Dare

Olivia falls asleep, still pumping her arms to the music.

Olivia falls asleep, still pumping her arms to the music.

 

having the time of our lives

having the time of our lives

Apparently, the “parade” is made up of everyone waiting for the truck to pass by and then they follow behind it, doing a cross between walking and dancing.  It’s hard to do, but we all got the hang of it after a few blocks.  The atmosphere was festive and fun.  Everyone was out to have a great time.  There were lots of people drinking, but it wasn’t over the top.  There were old and young people, white and black people, well-dressed folks and some with skimpy little costumes.  Everyone was loving the calypso music, including us.  We felt like we were a part of the celebration, not just watching “from the sidelines”.  It was joyous and uplifting.

Maggie, Bryson, and Russ

Maggie, Bryson, and Russ

Patronus and Anything Goes do Carnival.

Patronus and Anything Goes do Carnival.

 

There's Joanne against the yellow wall!

There’s Joanne against the yellow wall!

As we walked, we saw friends and acquaintances that we had made.  We saw the Minister of Tourism, with whom we hung out at the PAYS barbecue.  We passed by Joanne and her kids (from Secret Beach), who were leaning against a doorway, watching the parade go by.  We saw Lydia when we popped into her restaurant for a pit stop.  We saw some women we met at the beach, whose husbands go to Ross University, the medical school on Dominica.  We even saw Popsicle, dancing up a storm as usual.  We saw Titus and Eddison.  And we saw Ken G.  There were thousands of people at Carnival that day, but Portsmouth felt cozy and comfortable.  Like home.DSC_0866 2

After a fun dinner with Ken G and Anything Goes, we reluctantly made our way back to Blue Bay for the last time.  We lingered on the beach in front of the dinghy dock, not willing to step off the island for good.  All the PAYS guys were still off gallivanting in town at the post-parade street party.  There was no one to say good-bye to, so we nailed our boat cards to the wood table and made a heart of sand surrounding them.  I scooped up a handful of sand to take with us as a memory of our time in Dominica.  “We’ll be back,” I whispered, as I stepped into the dinghy, holding a very tired Porter in my lap.IMG_5971